[TexKan]

Lots of women say that cause they got a fella that don't know no better and the fella is never gonna change. You say that so you don't have to make excuses for your humiliation. My favorite term about a year before it ended was "If you can get him - you can have him" I finally got tired of makin any excuse for any man - my X never did anything that I had to make an excuse for. Turned out to be the better deal.

I used to say that for my Kansas boy - but truth is - it's disrespectful to go out and be so flirtatious that others are thinkin your fella is single. Pictures of Gibson hangin on women may not be what they appear. I know Mel is in deep trouble but geesh - he was never in trouble before - he's not a politician he's an actor - who cares?? And if they do - WHY???? That's like sayin the woman that called me a white bitch today deserves to be plastered all over Galveston County News.......... truth is - it's her problem not mine and really it's only words - didn't change my view of her bein a bigot and relieved me of havin to give her kid shots during my lunch hour. Ended up bein a win / win for me.