[TexKan]

Yeah well -= while he's gone I would redesign his dating world. He would have to do it the old fashioned way - ya know go out, meet a girl, I'll be go to hell if I continued to pay for his hook up ride - the internet would be mine since I pay for it and he would be back to his gameboy till he can afford his own hook up and computer.

I know that sounds really extreme but then so is runnin off to a state where you know no one tryin to hook up with someone that is a good game player. What happened to folks that said no. I realize he's 23 but I gotta tell ya - if I'm footin the bills he's gonna be towin the line.

I hope his trip goes well and he finds his princess - I hope even more that you can afford both of them. I loan my son (youngest) money here and there but I tell ya what - there better be no dates and no golf when he's on my dime. If he can afford to go play he can afford to pay his bills. He doesn't ask often but knows the rules when he does.

Course niether of my kids lend but to family as well. We just hope for the best and expect the worst - that way you are never surprised.