| I will agree with Tiger and all the rest. I'm a two-time loser (by choice) and even though it WAS my choice to move out and divorce, it hurt. Immensely. Anytime a relationship fails or even stalls, it's horrible on both parties. Please don't think, YWS, that she's not feeling some pain. It would just be impossible. You, on the other hand, know the pain you're feeling. That's not a bad thing and it's actually a part of growing. So, accept it, understand healing will take a while and try to go on. Long distance relationships rarely work - remember that the next time - perhaps the next time, you will be more in a position to talk about one of you changing locations. Really, though - would you have traded anything in the world for the chance to meet her? Naaa....I didn't think so. Nothing ventured, nothing lost. Ya just haveta take that gamble sometimes. My heart goes out to you. At 40 years old, I finally found my one true love. I can't help but feel badly for someone in your position. But just know, it will happen. Don't let your heart shut down.
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