Help me think through something.....

[Craigb]

What the H is wrong with her? I am not sure what kind of "Marriage Vows" she took, but the normal one kinda covers this. For better or worse! Richer or POORER!! Now, what vow did she take? So as I understand this, she expects him to make her "HAPPY"? Not one person on this earth can do that!

KC, your as normal as anyone in this world! I would tell her exactly what I thought of her and not pull one punch at all! LEVEL HER!! POOR LITTLE THING!

GROW UP!!!!! It shows me that she is northing but a spoiled little piece of trash! PUT HER IN THE GARBAGE CAN WHERE SHE BELONGS!

KC, take the garbage out, starting to smell!

[K C Muffin]

Originally Posted by Highwayman

That’s really a sweet deal KC.

She kicks him and the kid out and keeps the newest car. Sonny boy might just get custody and a generous child support award over that little stunt.

Funny thing is...he really doesn't want a big child support award. He doesn't really want to put her out at all. That all works in my favor, though. The more I see of that little guy, the more good I see.

[TexKan]

I still urge you to be cautious - he's obviously not angry. Save your vengeance for when he is - it will come. Remember love is a funny thing - best not burn a bridge you may need later. If there's any bridge burning let him do it but hold your tongue till after the divorce. It ain't over till he's had enough - parents don't enter into the equation. We are meant for moral support only. Sounds like he's still in love and hopes things will straighten out if he just does enough. Time will change things. Her first night out will help - or her first date. Shouldn't be long now.

[K C Muffin]

I'm thinkin' probly tonite - we have the little one and mom's alone - we'll see. I'm trying to be the supportive parent, but in the background doing what I can to guarantee the little one is taken care of.

[TexKan]

Well never hurts to have some sort of idea just what is goin on in the house now that he's gone. He'll figure it out - course could be that they just aren't happy together. Not every woman is a slut - some people feel life is too short to be unhappy for long. Don't mean they don't love one another. They didn't need 3rd parties to fall in love - best if they fall out on thier own too.

Just be patient KC and don't do anything you can't look them both in the eye for. Nothing wrong with being the support system he needs - that will go much farther than taking sides.

[K C Muffin]

One of you legal eagles, help me. Apparently, unbeknownst to sonny-boy, d-i-l put an offer on a condo last Friday. A mortgage officer at the bank where she works gave her whatever document she needed to show she qualified for a mortgage. She works in Kansas. The transaction for the sale/buy of the house will be in Missouri. (they already own the house where they live in Missouri)

She can't buy a house without sonny-boy's involvement, right? Son will be consulting with an attorney this week in Missouri just to know his rights. It's my opinion that they're headed for court, but sonny-boy doesn't want to hear that. I'm a little worried that he's not being realistic. All her movements in the last two weeks just screams divorce. She says she just wants space. I don't get it!!!!

[Highwayman]

I think she can buy a condo without him but they will likely use the joint credit to qualify her. Even if he doesn’t sign for the sale he might be responsible as long as they are still married. I think any mortgage broker that’s on the level wouldn’t process a loan if they knew a divorce was in the works. A shady one might try to push a loan through before the divorce is filed just to qualify her.

Second, if she buys a condo without the house being sold someone has to make a payment or it’s going to hurt sonny’s credit. I’m betting it won’t be her.

He needs that lawyer, especially with stuff going on over state lines. I think that I would be pushing for her to sign a quit claim on the house ASAP.