My Reputation

[Administrator]

Your reply indicates that you would like to talk about this in the forums instead of by PM, so here goes.

(Like I said in the PM to you) You may use the reputation system any way you see fit.

As administrator, I find it a little bit annoying that you have openly complained about unsigned reps, while you yourself have left 6 negative reps prior to today, all of them anonymous. The only one you have ever signed was the one you left today.

To reiterate:

I think it's REALLY funny that those who do give bad rep, won't put their name at the end! Like I said in another post, where's the balls on this board! Those of you giving me that bad rep can't honestly say you are scared of me....right? So let's just be honest here and say that if you are going to give bad rep, have the balls (or borrow some) to put your name at the end

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Like I said, I don't care how you use the rep system, but let's DO be honest when complaining about what others do.

[Sherry_Giskie]

Ok, well I am VERY sure that if anyone were to click on the comment to see exactly which comment I gave them bad rep for, they would know EXACTLY who gave it to them. I usually make my rep comment clear enough to go along with the comment that received the bad rep in the first place. I think many can attest to that. I am NOT scared to say what I feel to people.

[Sherry_Giskie]

Also, it is common for me to give bad rep only to people that I am having a current conversation. That makes the "from" question not an issue.

[TigerEyes]

You are right. I am what I am. Although, I do not believe I am a "hotheaded hormonal challenged individual". I believe some people assume that since I am a 22 year old female, that I am just what you said, and they aren't willing to accept that I may be something completely different than that. It's very unfortunate for me.
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Sherry, honey, it's what you post in the forums that paints the picture for us. If you don't like how we perceived you, why don't you try changing your actions -- rather than just whining about it?

[TigerEyes]

Originally Posted by Administrator

As administrator, I find it a little bit annoying that you have openly complained about unsigned reps, while you yourself have left 6 negative reps prior to today, all of them anonymous. The only one you have ever signed was the one you left today.

*LOL*

Now THAT'S funny... I don't care who y'are!!!

[Sherry_Giskie]

Originally Posted by TigerEyes

Sherry, honey, it's what you post in the forums that paints the picture for us. If you don't like how we perceived you, why don't you try changing your actions -- rather than just whining about it?

I'm not sure what the problem is here. Maybe I am not typing my feeling thoroughly? I try to "get in on the action" when I can, but every other time I post, I am calm, level-headed, and sincere! I know for a fact that when I have had disputes in threads that when they are finished, it's over for me! I don't use that against them later on another thread. I'm just not sure where this went bad! I have had the feeling that it may be my age. I'm not saying that this is true, but I don't know where else I have wronged anyone!

I do admit that I do get very offensive in some threads, but I am not the only one guilty as charged there. I'm just asking if it's possible for some of you to wipe the slate clean and treat me as if I were a "peer" of yours instead of someone to bash.

[Mike B.]

Originally Posted by Administrator

Your reply indicates that you would like to talk about this in the forums instead of by PM, so here goes.

(Like I said in the PM to you) You may use the reputation system any way you see fit.

As administrator, I find it a little bit annoying that you have openly complained about unsigned reps, while you yourself have left 6 negative reps prior to today, all of them anonymous. The only one you have ever signed was the one you left today.

To reiterate:
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Like I said, I don't care how you use the rep system, but let's DO be honest when complaining about what others do.

Admin.

With respect I find your above post alittle concerning. Do we all now need to be looking over our shoulder wondering if the administrator of this board is going to "show and tell" all the things we say?

Is the next step you take going to be revealing everyone true identity?

I'm not saying these things to be rude or critizing, but just a few of my thoughts.

[dustinwadams5]

The only reason the Admin brought it into the open forum is because she initiated it and as for you Sherry i'll just tell ya that the more opinionated you are, the more negative reps your gonna get it just comes with the territory. Don't take any of it personal and just remember it's just people's opinions.

[Administrator]

Originally Posted by Mike B.

Admin.

With respect I find your above post alittle concerning. Do we all now need to be looking over our shoulder wondering if the administrator of this board is going to "show and tell" all the things we say?

Is the next step you take going to be revealing everyone true identity?

I'm not saying these things to be rude or critizing, but just a few of my thoughts.

I appreciate your question Mike, but that seems like quite a stretch.

My communications with Sherry began behind the scenes after she started the thread. She continued to argue the point publicly even though I called her on the hypocrisy of the situation in private messages. By continuing the facade in the open forums, I felt it was in bad faith. This also indicated to me that she desired to discuss it publicly, not privately.

There are other factors in my decision to openly discuss this which you are not privy to, but understand, she opened the floor.

Member identities are not the issue here. Regardless, I do not keep track of member identities. Even if I did, I wouldn't reveal them. You needn't worry.

[Mike B.]

Originally Posted by Administrator

I appreciate your question Mike, but that seems like quite a stretch.

My communications with Sherry began behind the scenes after she started the thread. She continued to argue the point publicly even though I called her on the hypocrisy of the situation in private messages. By continuing the facade in the open forums, I felt it was in bad faith. This also indicated to me that she desired to discuss it publicly, not privately.

There are other factors in my decision to openly discuss this which you are not privy to, but understand, she opened the floor.

Member identities are not the issue here. Regardless, I do not keep track of member identities. Even if I did, I wouldn't reveal them. You needn't worry.

Admin.,

Thanks for the timely response. You're right, it was quite a stretch...just making a point though.

Your response is sufficient for me. Thanks!